What is BDSM?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Many people fantasize about some elements of the BDSM scene but very few like or want to be involved in all of them. Like everything in life choose what you want to do and leave the rest, Never get involved in any activity that you find unpleasant or which you do not want to do.

What is Fetish?

• Post by DirtyDavid

A Fetish is sexual excitement in response to an object or body part that’s not typically or always sexual.

Many people need to have the object of their fetish with them or be fantasizing about it to become sexually aroused, get an erection, and have an orgasm.

Why Join Washington BDSM?

• Post by DirtyDavid

We have more Kinksters in Washington than any other kinksters Contact website. We have thousands of local Masters, Mistresses, and submissives of both sexes waiting to meet someone like you.

What is a Play session or an Act?

• Post by DirtyDavid

A Play Session is one of the ways in which BDSM practitioners refer to their encounters, when the encounter takes place in a BDSM party or club it is often referred to as an Act and the people involved are Actors.

Not all BDSM scenarios have sexual activity involved. Although there is often a sexual element, some people enjoy the power exchange or pain exchange elements more than any sexual element.

What does BDSM or B and D Mean?

• Post by DirtyDavid

There are many different acronyms and many different words with special meanings in use in the BDSM & Fetish Lifestyles. This page will attempt to bring as many of them as possible into one list.

Sometimes the acronyms have multiple meanings, so always make sure that when you use them in communications that you expand the accronym at least once.

Is it Normal to Enjoy BDSM?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Absolutely! Sure, the Vanilla community, especially the press and church, have demonized the lifestyle and made us out to be freaks because we’re into being chained up, whipped, or gagged, but those in the vanilla community can also get caught in the routine of having sex the same way every time again until they are so bored of their sex life due to a lack of fun and imagination that they completely stop having sex.

How do I use the site to contact kinksters?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Step 1. Create a Profile

Step 2. Browse our member profiles

Step 3. Write to people you like the look of

Step 4. Meet the people whop also like the look of you

Please send me a list of kinksters in my area

• Post by DirtyDavid

We are regularly asked if we can introduce people or provide a list of kinksters in a specific area, or asked to hook people up directly.

We do not do personal introductions, apart from the fact that we usually do not know the person asking, we have no idea if you would be compatible with our friends.

What are the age limits for kinksters?

• Post by DirtyDavid

There is no fixed upper age limit, it depends upon the physical fitness, capabilities and kinky imagination of the individual.

In the BDSM lifestyle older Masters and Mistresses are in demand for their experience and knowledge. Many younger Masters and Mistresses have a limited amount of knowledge.